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Monday, June 9, 2008

The Female Privilege List

I found this FEMALE PRIVILEGE LIST on a MRA-Forum posted by a MRA-member as response to the Feminist 'Male Privilege List'.
Nice reading.

FEMALE PRIVILEGES

1) Career wise, I can complain about harassment and not laughed at or have my gender called into question by both genders.

2) I can skip a few years of employment and then return, demanding the same rises that others have had who remained employed. If my demand is not met, I can accuse the company of discrimination.

3) Even though I'm more likely to abuse children, I am perceived as sweet & innocent.

4) If I start a fight with a man, I can be guaranteed others will come to my defense - even if he isn't defending himself.

5) I can go to a bar and drink for free.

6) I almost never have to worry about being sexually harassed by my boss as I can take him to the cleaners if he even tries it.

7) My ability to do a certain job will never come into question because of my gender.

8 ) I can fall on my gender as a sympathy vote if I run for politics.

9) I can marry someone based on thier financial or social status like it will actually empower me more.

10) I can sexually assault men and remain legally immune.

11) I can go out in public wearing almost anything without being harrassed or judged as I have a lot more options in clothing, whereas men are generally restricted in their 'acceptable' dress codes.

12) If I so happen to meet someone at a party, and decide to have sex, I would be viewed as being 'empowered' and television even promotes this with programmes like 'sex in the city'.

13) I can sexually mutilate my male children and deprive them of a few thousand nerves which assist greatly in enhancing sexual pleasure.

14) My handbag is my world and get to have groups follow me for a simple pee.

15) I don’t have to worry about the father's opinion if I get pregnant, it's all about me!

16) I can bash men and no one bats an eye-lid, if a man bashes us women - we call him a misogynist and people will shun him.

17) I can date more than one man at the same time, and society would think I'm empowered.

18) I can put on the television and be safe in the knowledge that women are portrayed positively while men are portayed as idiots or abusers.

19) I am practically imune from legal repercussions for my actions as I have feminist groups coming to my saviour - even killing my children or husband.

20) I reproduce - that must be pretty awesome for guys to witness.

21) I can fake an orgasm... something almost impossible for a guy to do.

22) No pharmacist can claim the right to deny me any medicines I ask for at a drug store as I can claim discrimination. Of course, if I'm underage that's different - duh.

23) Even when I am acting within my gender role, I am GAINING from it, rather than being oppressed as I can CHOOSE to stay at home and enjoy watching the children grow up while my husband (assuming I bother to keep him around) works his ass off to keep a roof over our head.

24) If I go to church, I can attend knowing the folks are taught immeasurable levels of respect for me and it is meant to be mutual respect.

25) I don’t have to live up to expectations of how thin I am supposed to be - feminism freed me from such pettiness.

26) I get to use PMS as an excuse for murdering my children or husband.

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Feminism has given women privileges without responsibility, and men are left with no choice but to pick up the slack.

If anybody knows about other female privileges, please let me know. Looking forward to your comments.

24 comments:

Anonymous said...

I have the privilege of telling you what an idiot you are. I am sure you are just a bitter virgin who takes out your anger on women because you can't get any. :)

WWu777 said...

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Regards,
WuMaster

Curiepoint said...

Notice how the only weapon in Anon's arsenal is shaming language and ad hominem? Not one shred of counter-arguement, just typical empty-headed name calling like a four year old would use.

But then again, if it irked her to respond in typical catty mode, then the original post hit the intended mark. Well done.

Curiepoint said...

...and wwu777, nobody said that they hated women here; at least not to my knowledge. Kindly do not attribute sentiments to others.

I for one don't hate anyone. I just have a clear sense of who is worth the time to get to know and be friendly with, and who is not. For the latter, I barely acknowledge them as a fellow life form and move along.

Besides, I am not convinced that foreign women are that much better than local women. If a woman can take advantage of a situation to ruin a man's life, she will no matter what her skin color or language.

Yohan said...

@anonymous
Great posting, and of course anonymous, and nothing constructive ... typical feminist.
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@wwu777
Thanks for your comment. I do not hate anybody and I see no reason why you should hate American women.
I see no reason why to mention them at all, why even to acknowledge their existence?
Nobody can force you to socialize with them...
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@curiepoint
Yes, correct.
It's not about foreign women, it is more about the laws, we have in our feminist countries.

A foreign woman might be much better than an American woman, but only if you never bring her into the USA.

Men First said...

Is it possible that a woman (the kind in reference) could respond to facts with an acknowledgment as oppossed to demonstrating their base mentality and inability to see anything other from their vagina's perspective?. What this guy said is a fact the truth will out, but then when the truth is known, your victimhood status drops!

Anti Misandry said...

Hey - that's mine!!! :) thanks for sharing it :D

Note the anon comment; you're a virgin, you're bitter, you're angry and you're sexually deprive (in addition to being a virgin) and finally - you're an idiot!

Wow, surely that's nearly a full 'fembot bingo' card isn't it?

I think you can shout BINGO now :o)

http://antimisandry.com/chit-chat-main/my-own-privilege-list-8877.html#post54024

Anonymous said...

You forgot one more thing.

"In some countries, i can spend two years getting ahead of my male peers because they are forced to give up the best years of their lives to the army... and i'm not.

And to top it off, i can call them chauvanists if they don't believe in chivalry."

Anonymous said...

I'm all for gender equality... so i sympathise with both feminists and masculinists.

I don't appreciate chauvanism of *any stripe- male or female.

Having said that though, sometimes i feel that where i come from, women want all the rights without the responsibilities. Your blog hit *that on the head.

Ex-fathers said...

More to add to the list:

Slavery
I get to take your kids and your house and you have to pay me for it.

False Accusations
I get to make false accusations of assault, rape, child abuse, and child sexual abuse with impunity.

Paternity Fraud
I don't have to tell you that the children you are supporting are not yours, and I suffer no consequences for it.

Domestic Violence
I can beat you and if you call the police they will arrest you.

Credibility
I can undermine your position by claiming you are angry because you can't get sex.
- - -
Ex-fathers
http://ex-fathers.blogspot.com/

a REAL LIVE WOMAN said...

3) Even though I'm more likely to abuse children, I am perceived as sweet & innocent.

Most sexual predators are men....

4) If I start a fight with a man, I can be guaranteed others will come to my defense - even if he isn't defending himself.
Like that woman who got beaten to death in NYC in front of 30 something people and no one stopped the guy or called the cops!

5) I can go to a bar and drink for free.
WHERE IS THIS BAR?!

8 ) I can fall on my gender as a sympathy vote if I run for politics.
Helped Hilary in her presidental run! ....wait....

11) I can go out in public wearing almost anything without being harrassed or judged as I have a lot more options in clothing, whereas men are generally restricted in their 'acceptable' dress codes.
I go out topless quite often myself.

13) I can sexually mutilate my male children and deprive them of a few thousand nerves which assist greatly in enhancing sexual pleasure.
IS THIS THE SOURCE OF ANGER FOR IT ALL RIGHT HERE?

15) I don’t have to worry about the father's opinion if I get pregnant, it's all about me!
I mean...unless its my father's baby, maybe.... But if its MY baby...

21) I can fake an orgasm... something almost impossible for a guy to do.
ANOTHER SOURCE FOR THE ANGER.

22) No pharmacist can claim the right to deny me any medicines I ask for at a drug store as I can claim discrimination. Of course, if I'm underage that's different - duh.
Um.....no pharmacist anywhere can discriminate medicine for anyone, dude. If they fill yr viagra, they should fill my birth control too. Sorry.

I don't agree with Anonymous that yr a bitter virgin (I don't disagree either) and that's why you spew all these made up talking points. From what yr saying, you simply have crazy inadequacy issues (perhaps yr winky is too small for yr liking...perhaps some 'horrible woman' told you it was) and so you need another group of people kept down in order to make yrself able to face another day.
You want us barefoot in the kitchen, not voting, not being politically equal so you can feel like a big tough man/human being.
And that's not fair if you have to eliminate half the competition in order to look good. That's...kinda cheating.

On another note, SLAVERY I believe is cooking yr food, cleaning yr house, doing yr errands and raising yr children...If yr ADVOCATING it, it ain't mah privilege, guys.

Anonymous said...

There are many more to add to the list:

- I can deprive the father of my children of any meaningful contact with them

- I can ruin the father of my children with the full assistance of the state, and not have to provide any proof of where the "child" support money went

- I can divorce my husband and take him to the cleaners

- I can have my partner kicked out of the family home (even if it is his) with a free restraining order granted in less than an hour with no evidence of abuse

- I can accuse any man that pisses me off of rape, and be anonymous, while he is being publicly names and his life is torn apart forever. Even if it can be proved I lied, nothing will happen to me.

- I have a multi-billion dollar domestic violence shelter and protection system at my disposal while you have none, even though men make 50% of DV victims and 30% of DV-related hospital visits

- In any domestic violence dispute, the police has been ordered to, and trained to never arrest me (because the man is always the predominant aggressor as defined by VAWA)

- I can call anyone who mentions my privileges a misogynist

Anonymous said...

lol....look most of the women that post here are typical feminists..............you really can judge them by their cover

Detective S. Nuggles said...

I just learned about Masculism today, and a google search drove me to your blog. I am a feminist who shares a lot of the concerns that masculists have, and it is both amusing and saddening that certain aspects of both movements are set up to pit people who are both being oppressed by stupid shit against each other. Keep reading and exploring, you are posing a lot of important points. I think you might be surprised how much you have in common with feminists. I do wish that you didn't see feminists as out to destroy men; feminism is about equality, about minimizing the loss of human potential due to sex/gender- for men AND women. I wish you could have grown up female to understand how bad our culture can be to women, though, because you seem to be angry at women for being angry at sexism. Why not be angry at the sexism, whomever it is hurting?
As a woman, I deal with crap that you never will- and I know the same is true for you. Why hate? Why not explore and change the world for the better together?

A Rational Female said...

Here are my counter-arguments to your list:

FEMALE PRIVILEGES

1) Career wise, I can complain about harassment and not laughed at or have my gender called into question by both genders.
I'm sorry, I must have missed something. This is a bad thing because...?

2) I can skip a few years of employment and then return, demanding the same rises that others have had who remained employed. If my demand is not met, I can accuse the company of discrimination.
Okay, I agree that this is not fair when it happens.

3) Even though I'm more likely to abuse children, I am perceived as sweet & innocent.
Actually, that's not how the statistic goes. The statistic is that a child is more likely to be abused by a female BECAUSE child's primary caregiver is most often female! Duh.
And since when are women automatically perceived as sweet and innocent? Anybody who makes generalizations like that about either sex is sexist.

4) If I start a fight with a man, I can be guaranteed others will come to my defense - even if he isn't defending himself.
Uh, not if you're WRONG, they won't.

5) I can go to a bar and drink for free.
This may be true, but men offer women drinks in the hope of getting something in return. Nobody's forcing you to pay for them.
And, by the way, I NEVER let a man pay for my own drinks/dinner/etc. I want to have equal wages AND pay for my own stuff... that's equality.

6) I almost never have to worry about being sexually harassed by my boss as I can take him to the cleaners if he even tries it.
You make it sound like it's a bad thing that women don't have to worry about sexual harassment...

7) My ability to do a certain job will never come into question because of my gender.
Really? Never? I don't know where you come from, but in the real world women have to work just as hard as men FOR LOWER PAY!!! (about 20% less)

8 ) I can fall on my gender as a sympathy vote if I run for politics.
Yes, I hate politics too. Moving on.

9) I can marry someone based on their financial or social status like it will actually empower me more.
Is it empowering to be entirely dependent on someone else for money, who will eventually dump you for somebody younger? I know a lot of these women, and they are not empowered.
Of course, a man could marry a rich woman so he doesn't have to work... but of course, unlike men, most women aren't dumb enough to marry someone who only wants them for their money.

10) I can sexually assault men and remain legally immune.
Women can assault men? Let's see... legally, they can't. Physically, they really can't either.

11) I can go out in public wearing almost anything without being harassed or judged as I have a lot more options in clothing, whereas men are generally restricted in their 'acceptable' dress codes.
Yeah, right, women are never judged because of how they dress. (Although, yes, men should definitely be allowed to wear more stuff.)

12) If I so happen to meet someone at a party, and decide to have sex, I would be viewed as being 'empowered' and television even promotes this with programmes like 'sex in the city'.
I'm pretty sure a lot of people would still call you a slut... although I do HATE "Sex and the City", it's a bunch of dumb women obsessed with gender roles. However, sex (for men and for women) is a personal choice, and I don't believe anyone should be judged because of that.

13) I can sexually mutilate my male children and deprive them of a few thousand nerves which assist greatly in enhancing sexual pleasure.
Actually, I know a lot of people may take offense when I say this, but circumcision is SO WRONG! I mean really, what kind of mother would let her son be mutilated like that? My mother refused to do that to my brother, and I would never, EVER do that to my child. (See, fellas, I'm as pro-man as I am pro-woman! I don't hate men... just the ones who hate me.)
However, that is the decision of both parents, not just the mother.

A Rational Female said...

The rest of the list...

14) My handbag is my world and get to have groups follow me for a simple pee.
A handbag is important when your clothes don't come with pockets... The bathroom thing is dumb, but I don't do it and neither do my friends... there are a lot of stupid women in the world, about as many as there are stupid men (note my lack of sexism; again, I like men, just not the ones who hate women!)

15) I don’t have to worry about the father's opinion if I get pregnant, it's all about me!
Having a child and getting an abortion are both huge decisions and potentially traumatic; nobody should be forced to do either.

16) I can bash men and no one bats an eye-lid, if a man bashes us women - we call him a misogynist and people will shun him.
This is sometimes true, and unfair, although women who bash men are still silently considered bitches.

17) I can date more than one man at the same time, and society would think I'm empowered.
If you say so... but of course, the same is true for men.

18) I can put on the television and be safe in the knowledge that women are portrayed positively while men are portayed as idiots or abusers.
Since when? Both men and women are portrayed in obnoxious gender roles... I don't think the women on TV are always portrayed positively, most of them piss the hell out of me. Besides a man doesn't have to be appealing to the opposite sex in order to have an acting career, and a women does.

19) I am practically immune from legal repercussions for my actions as I have feminist groups coming to my saviour - even killing my children or husband.
Practically immune? What the fuck, if I thought our legal system was that useless I'd move to another country. (By the way, is English your second language, because "coming to my saviour" doesn't mean anything...)

20) I reproduce - that must be pretty awesome for guys to witness.
Sucks for us... at least you don't have to give birth (or suffer menstrual cramps).

21) I can fake an orgasm... something almost impossible for a guy to do.
Yeah, I guess you can't fake an orgasm if you're actually ENJOYING the sex. Actually, I get really pissed off at women who fake orgasms... it's pointless and counterproductive... and kind of an insult to the man, I think.

22) No pharmacist can claim the right to deny me any medicines I ask for at a drug store as I can claim discrimination. Of course, if I'm underage that's different - duh.
Uh, I'm pretty they can deny you anything you don't legally have a right to. And I think it's bullshit that underage girls can't get the morning after pill.

23) Even when I am acting within my gender role, I am GAINING from it, rather than being oppressed as I can CHOOSE to stay at home and enjoy watching the children grow up while my husband (assuming I bother to keep him around) works his ass off to keep a roof over our head.
I hate women who do that too... it's an insult to the women in my family were not given a proper education and had to slave away at home for their controlling or abusive husbands because they were unable or forbidden to get a job to support themselves and their children.

24) If I go to church, I can attend knowing the folks are taught immeasurable levels of respect for me and it is meant to be mutual respect.
Have you ever read the Bible? Women are considered the root of all evil, instruments of Satan placed on earth in order to tempt men from the path of righteousness. It also says that women must completely submit to their husbands and strictly forbids them from teaching or speaking in churches, among other things.

25) I don’t have to live up to expectations of how thin I am supposed to be - feminism freed me from such pettiness.
Uh... WHY is this a bad thing? Men and women should both be allowed to look however they want... or do you believe that a woman's only purpose is to look how YOU want her to look?

26) I get to use PMS as an excuse for murdering my children or husband.
Since when? I'm pretty sure most people (including me) would laugh in your face.

Anonymous said...

Here's one; Women can call the police and claim a man "assaulted" her and have him jailed or imprisoned on her word alone without any corroborating evidence.

Jeevanoid said...

well two feminists' comments against a privilage d author stated abotut lookin after d house n stuff is so full of shit cuz women like to go n work just to prove that they are not weaker than men. Men would just love to sit at home all day doing entertaining stuff n someone else earned him a living.

Jeevanoid said...

Feminism prevails over maculinism or even gender equality for that matter in most parts of the world. Recently, I read a blog about a news which said, a 8th grade girl sent nude pics of herself to many of her male classmates. Somehow, one boy was caught , got suspended from school n spent a night in juvenille detention while the gal didnt get in any trouble

Anonymous said...

Advocacy though asserting your own rights as a man instead of attacking a group you may not understand is the only way for true change. You cannot stop feminism. Why not work toward equality instead of trying to stop something that will make the lives of your wives, sisters, and daughters more fair?

Anonymous said...

The Female Privilege List is merely a response to the 'Male Privilege List' which was created by feminists.

And yes, feminism can be stopped.

It is a hateful men-hating movement, but non-productive.

Don't give money to feminist organizations and this movement is finished.

Anonymous said...

There are a lot of great points here.

If we really want to make our point as intelligent men then we need to keep our comments smart and keep the emotional rationalizations to the feminists.

There are so many areas where men clearly suffer, such as divorce, court hearings and sexist conviction prejudices, not to mention the fact that women all think they have this huge entitlement to get everything that men have with NONE of the responsibilities.

The next time a burglar breaks into my home I'm sending the wife down stairs in the name of equality.

Yeah Right!

We all know the wage gap is a crock and I don't see women lining up to perform back breaking hard labor.

Let's stay civil but make our points known

Anonymous said...

"Why not work toward equality instead of trying to stop something that will make the lives of your wives, sisters, and daughters more fair?"

Since when has treating one gender as superior over the other been 'fair'?

Seriously, when? Feminism isn't about 'fairness' - it's quite blatantly about superior rights for women at the expense of men & children.

Jen said...

I laughed so hard at the stupidity. What a troll! :D